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1、别样的谢师宴前几日,收到学生徐的短信,是发给我和miss杨的,我俩是他初一和初二的班主任:“w老师,y老师,您好,请您参加我的谢师宴,将于我家中举行,地点在xxx。”我顿感惊讶:徐同学原本是我班学生,一年前因成绩和心理等原因休学,后转去了mq学校。算来,今年并没有毕业,哪来谢师一说?于是电话过去问询。电话那头是孩子激动的声音:“老师,我当上化学课代表了。” 脑海中现出学生徐一年前的样子,原本是那样一个阳光自信,愿意为班级和他人作任何事,喜欢动手搞点小发明的孩子,却因为努力学而跟不上,在一味向他人付出却得不到该有的理解和尊重后情绪波动大,如同受伤的刺猬一样,蜷缩在角落里,不时还会竖起身上的刺,保
2、护自己,扎上别人。后来,听从我的建议,休学换个环境。许是环境变了,人也跟着开朗起来,他依旧愿意为班级做事,依旧愿意搞些小发明,依旧愿意表现自己。不同的是,他因为重新读了一年初二,所以课程上举重若轻,学得轻松,成绩大幅度提高,自信心爆棚,所以学习于他也成了一种乐趣,学习变得更加主动。同学对他也是钦佩不已。所以,再见到他时,他的脸上是微笑与自信,全然不是一年前的畏畏缩缩。尤其是眼睛,变得笃定而坚决。更令人开心的是,他的自理能力已经让我这个成年人望尘莫及了。一个人独行北京、上海、深圳、香港。一个人骑车游高邮在美国结识了一位日本朋友,常常在网络上用英文聊天。而这个孩子当年在我班上时,英语常常是不及格的
3、。今天,我和杨应邀去他家,他老远的来接我们,到他家他才很神秘又不好意思地说:“老师,请你们吃大餐。今天的菜全是我亲自做的。”我和杨都不甚相信,像他这样年纪的孩子,绝大多数饭来张口,连蒜和葱都分不清,还会做菜?能做个蛋炒饭就神奇了。但是,请看,我们的盛宴:黑胡椒鸡翅、油炸香蕉卷、韭菜肉丝、酸辣白菜、茄汁菌菇美容汤、混合果汁、意大利面待添加的隐藏文字内容3这全是一个15岁的孩子独自一人忙出来的。尝了一下,便贪吃起来,因为着实色香味俱全。尤其是黑椒鸡翅,绝不亚于肯德基大爷的。油炸香蕉卷,看上去金黄金黄的,内香外脆,香甜可口,反正我是做不成来的,向小徐请教,他教我:先将香蕉切段,裹上炼乳。鸡蛋面粉混合
4、做成胶状,将香蕉放入,裹匀。最后撒上面包屑,放入油锅小火煎炸成金黄色。 茄汁菌菇美容汤他是这样做的:番茄炸成汁做底料,加水煮沸,入菌菇、胡萝卜,熬煮。没有任何调料,却品出一股酸甜。他还很得意的说:“老师,这菜多吃没事,减肥的。”席间,小徐很得意的将他的获奖证书拿给我们看,有校优秀学生干部的,有作文竞赛获奖的,有英语竞赛获奖的。总之,孩子的喜悦是溢于言表。我们也真心为他高兴。庆幸自己自始至终没有放弃小徐,庆幸自己时不时关心转学后小徐的发展。更庆幸他真的开始开朗、自信。也开始反思:我们为了所谓的班级均分,常常忽略那些很有个性潜力未显的孩子。殊不知,有时候,他们能给我们多少的惊喜呀!千万不要吝啬对孩
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