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1、乱世佳人对21世纪女性的启示 AbstractA famous man has once said that women hold half the sky. A wise writer has said that half the man is a woman. In fact, women are just like the deep-hidden treasure which has not been explored completely. It is not deniable that with the economic globalization, knowledge econom
2、y and Chinas entry into the WTO, women have stepped into a bigger arena. Women have a better sense of interpersonal relationship, family and business success. They have the desire to be admitted by the society. But all these good wishes are not easy to accomplish. This paper gives some suggestions t
3、o women hoping to get success in career, family and interpersonal relationship through the analysis of the main characters Scarlet and Melanie in the famous masterpiece Gone with the Wind. In terms of success in career, women can learn from Scarlet and cultivate the ability of innovation, self-confi
4、dence and self-trust. As for success in family life, women can learn Melanies trust, respect and love. To succeed in interpersonal relationship, women can follow Scarlet to use beauty properly to attract others, and follow Melanie to use her internal beauty to win others respect and trust.Key Wordsi
5、deal woman; career; family life; interpersonal relationship. 摘要有个伟人说妇女能顶半边天，有个聪明的作家说男人的一半是女人。其实，当今世界，唱主角的依旧是男人，女人犹如一座深藏的宝藏，远远没有被挖掘出来。不可否认，伴随全球化，知识经济，我国入世等诸多因素的影响，女性的人生舞台得到了极大拓展，其修养意识、交际意识、家庭意识、成功意识等迅速强化。她们渴望社会认可，发挥潜力；渴望魅力四射，展示自我；渴望独立进取，事业成功；渴望婚姻美满，人生幸福，但要真正成为这样的成功女性并不容易。本文通过对飘中两个典型女性人物的分析，提出女性可
6、从中学习和借鉴的地方，主要是在事业方面可学习斯佳丽的创新意识与能力以及自信；在家庭生活方面可学习梅拉妮对丈夫的信任、尊重以及拥有一颗无限的爱心；在人际交往方面可学习斯佳丽充分利用美丽的外表优势和梅拉妮拥有的微笑、诚实以及友好态度等内在的修养。关键词理想女性；事业；家庭；人际交往 IntroductionShakespeare, a famous playwright, has said that the name of the women was frailty. For a long time, women were slaves of men. Women were vulner
7、able and could not protect themselves, nor could they have their own fate in hand. What the women could do was just to obey mens order. (Yun Zhou, 3)But as time goes by, with the development of society, womens stature has improved a lot. Women in 21st century are not what they were centuries ago. Mo
8、dern women have changed a lot and have their unique characters and features.With the development of advanced science and technology, economic globalization and the arrival of knowledge era, the society today is no longer dominated by men. Women have been the masters of the other half of the sky. Wom
9、en can control their own fate and they have the right to decide what to do or what not to do .Men and women are equal.(Xin Ran, 4) . Present Social Situation of WomenSome novels and fictions create the images of women who are successful in career and gain respect from people. But these images a
10、re just the good wishes of the writers. The reason why these writers create such heroines is partly that in real life under that background, women can not easily succeed either in family life, career or interpersonal relationship.An ideal woman is one who should at least be successful in career, fam
11、ily and interpersonal relationship. But do not be scared of the three goals which seem difficult to achieve. To be an ideal woman, one can get some inspiration or suggestions from Scarlet and Melanie, the two heroines in Gone with the Wind. Suggestions on How to Achieve Success in Business for a Wom
12、anA. Features and Advantages of Scarlet Todays society is full of serious competitions. The pressure, as well as the perplexing social situation makes people worried. Women easily get lost or lose heart facing the failure or obstacles or difficulties. Then what can women do or what measures can wome
13、n take to overcome the difficulties and finally achieve success in business? Lets have a look at Scarlet in Gone with the Wind.In Scarlets era, it was mens world, and women accepted doctrines such as the beliefs that the men owned the property, while women manage it. Men took the credit for the mana
14、gement, and women praised his cleverness. Men roared like a bull when a splinter was in his finger, and the women muffled the moans of childbirth, least she disturbed him. Men were usually drunk and spoke angrily to women, while women were usually kind, gracious and forgiving. Born in such a society
15、, Scarlet was a rebellious girl. At that time all men felt that the wife should be guided by her husbands superior knowledge, accept his opinions fully and have none of her own. But Scarlet intended to run the mill herself, which was a big shock to her husband as well as other men and women in
16、 that county. In fact seldom had man heard of women in business anywhere if women were so unfortunate as to be compelled to make a little money to assist their families in these hard times of war. If women really had no choice but to work and earn money, they would just do baking or paint china or d
17、o some sewing, keep boarders or teach or give music lesson and such like. Other women made money but they kept themselves at home while they did it as a woman should. But people could not accept woman who left the protection of her home and ventured out into the rough world of men, competing with th
18、em in business, rubbing shoulders with them, being exposed to insult and gossipespecially when Scarlet was not forced to do it, when she had a husband amply able to provide food clothes for her.Scarlet always felt that women had hardness and endurance unknown to men, despite that she was taught in c
19、hildhood that women were frail, tender, sensitive creatures. She was a woman who could handle business as well or even better than men. Even though she had been brought up to believe that a woman alone could accomplish nothing, yet she had managed the plantation without man help. She believed that w
20、omen could manage everything in the world without men helpexcept having babies. With the idea that she was as capable as a man came a sudden rush of pride and violent longing to prove it, to make money for herself as men did. Money could be her own and she could handle it at her own will.B. What to
21、Learn from ScarletFrom the above, it is clear that women in todays society should learn from Scarlet to have innovation, confidence and self-trust.1. InnovationNowadays, innovation plays an initial part in a person success of business. Innovation is the essence of the high-tech society. People who l
22、ike reading newspapers, surfing the Internet or watching TV are familiar with the reports about people who become rich overnight. Some one has once said that at the beginning there is no way in the world, but the roads are formed when there are more and more people walking on it. However when too ma
23、ny people walk on the same road, the road disappears. This saying is quite philosophical. Then how to find a new road when there is no way for us to walk? The answer is “to be innovative”!Todays society is full of serious competitions, which is an important motivation to the whole society improvemen
24、t and development. Competition means that you have to struggle against others maybe just for a job, a promotion or money or a good living. People often think it difficult to find a good job, not to say a stable job. Sometimes women job-hunters in reality are looked down upon or discriminated by the
25、interviewers and employers. So how can women have their own field in this world? Women should believe that men are not the only persons who can do the job; women can also do it and even do it better than men. Scarlet could run the mill which was considered as mens work. Women in today society c
26、an also do such kind of work which is traditionally regarded as only mens work. To be innovative, women should collect the current information about what is a promising job. Knowledge is necessary. Nowadays the society is one with information. Women should read magazines, newspapers or spend enough
27、time in searching information through Internet. It will be easier for you to succeed if you gain information before others. So innovation is the key for women success.2. Confidence and Self-trustBesides innovation, women should also have confidence and self-trust.“Self-trust is the first secret of s
28、uccess”, said Emerson. It is known that ones life couldnt go smoothly without difficulty. Difficulties or frustration are the obstacles on the road to success. Now that we can not avoid these terrible factors, why not be confident to overcome them. Scarlet always said “tomorrow is another day”. Why
29、can not the women say that “Today I meet and fight against the difficulties, tomorrow I will meet the success?” There is a saying that confidence is half the success. Be confident means that you should also be optimistic. Confident and optimistic people can bravely face the terrible difficulties. Wh
30、en you have thought out a dream or plan you should have the confidence to realize it. Dont just think every day. Women may dream that one day they will be a rich, elegant lady with fashionable dresses and expensive jewelries. But they seldom put their heart into making them come true. Because they d
31、o not believe themselves. Why can Scarlet do everything she dreams of? Because she is a confident woman. Charles Chaplin said “you have to believe in yourself. That is the secret of success”. Nothing in the world is too difficultif you put your heart into it. Suggestions on How to Achieve Success in
32、 Family for a WomanA. Features and Advantages of Melanie in Gone with the WindMelanie was an impressive character in Gone with the Wind. She was a kind, soft, lovely woman who was devoted to her husband and family. Melanie was not a beautiful woman, but she was very brave even though she was thin as
33、 a rail and delicate enough to be blown away by the wind. But even without a charming appearance she won her husbands heart. Melanie considered her husband and child as all she had. She was not suitable to give birth to a child and the process of giving birth to the first child was an unforgettable
34、terrible experience in her life. It was a mothers nature that made her so bravely to endure the hardness. After giving birth to the first child the doctor told Melanie that she would better not be pregnant again or she might be in danger. Regardless of the advice and her feeble health, she was still
35、 so excited and willing to have another baby for her husband. But she finally died of miscarriage.Melanie was a good wife who knew how to build a harmonious family. Even when Melanie knew that Scarlet loved her husband she still did not take some measures to stop her husband from getting along with
36、Scarlet. Because she trusted her husband. When people gossiped that her husband had relationship with Scarlet, she was not angry as other women did. At a party during which all the people gathered together intending to see the fight between the two women, Scarlet and her husband were saved by Melani
37、es kindness , love and outspoken trust which had been in her voice as she crossed and face the curious, malicious covertly hostile crowd. How neatly Melanie had scotched the scandal, keeping Scarlet at her side all through the dreadful evening! People were somewhat bewildered, but they were polite.B
38、. What to Learn from MelanieNowadays, family life is still important for women. But even women years ago already spent most of their time on the family, there were still endless problems encountering them. So how can people have a harmonious and happy family? Maybe you can learn something from Melan
39、ie, the other heroin in Gone with the Wind.1. Trust The best advantage we can learn from Melanie is: trust your spouse. Women in today society suffer from divorce more frequently. The divorce rate is higher and higher than ever before. One factor accounts for the high divorce rate is distrust betwee
40、n the wives and husbands. Some women complain that their husbands do not come back home punctually after work. For example, if the husbands have not been back after the work time, the wives may wonder what the husbands are doing. Why do they have so many appointments of work? Are they really working
41、 over time? Are they having an informal relationship with other female workmates? Will they go dance or have dinner or date other beautiful, young, charming ladies? And some time when husbands forget their birthday, wedding anniversary, Valentines day or other important festivals which the wives reg
42、ard highly, the wives may suspect whether they do not love them any more, whether they are not so attractive to them or for some other reasons. With such suspects in mind, the wives can not wait calmly. They may even employ detectives to trace husbands life. When the husbands find what the wives do
43、behind them, they may feel uncomfortable to stay with them. Then a previous happy family may become a battle field. So husbands and wives should trust each other.2. RespectRespect is also important for a happy family life. Carnegie, a famous American writer, has written a famous book titled “the wea
44、kness of the human being”, in which he says that if you want to have a happy family you should never try to change your partners hobbits, ideas ,etc. Every person has his own characters and features. Being a spouse does not mean that husband should reshape his own personalities or belief or ot
45、her routine according to the requirements of the wife. If the husband can accept wife suggestions, that is ok. But if the husband really will not change, women should remember never to force the husband to do it. Even though you two are couple now, respect is also needed between you. Respect can mak
46、e the partner have their own secret or make the other part comfortable.Women should not only respect husbands but also the children. In todays society there are some cases that the mother or the father read the childs private letters or diaries, which is against the law. Every person has his own sec
47、ret which he does not want to be found by others including the parents. Even though the parents say that they do this because they love children and care about their growth and do not want them to get into the trouble. But children also have something belonging to their own. So respect is also impor
48、tant to the happiness of a harmonious family.3. LoveBesides trust and respect, love of course is the essence of a family. Some people say that marriage is the grave of love. Maybe it is partly because that after people getting married the sweet love which make lovers attractive to each other disappear slowly. A family without love is like a building without foundation and framework, then the building of family gets ruined day by day until all the whole building falls into pieces and nothing remains.
