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1、should parents smack their children Should parents smack their children Obviously, family education plays an essential role in children development. As the core of family, parents take responsibility to well-educate their children. Currently, when concerning the question that whether the parents sho
2、uld smack their children or not, it becomes controversial. From our point of view, parents should in a correct way by guiding them patiently and caring them cautiously. It is not reasonable to smack children. Our reasons can be listed as follows. First, the relationship between parents and children
3、will be ruined. In others words, the gap between them may get deep. Being smacked, children taste bitterness physically and mentally. This leads to some children hold hater towards their parents. Therefore, they are not willing to communicate with their parents any more. Gradually, the increasing ga
4、p creates obstacle for gaining a normal and pleasant family life. Second, it causes some children lose confidence while others trapped in depression. Since every children wishes to gain respect from others, especially from parents, which is the source of confidence. However, being smacked several ti
5、mes, children dignity will be damaged. They may lose confidence in themselves and even regard themselves as a useless one. Therefore, they show no interest in anything and trapped in deep depression. Some children perform poorly in exam display a negative attitude towards school and society. Third,
6、parents will offer children with an incorrect means to solve problems. The children being smacked could hold the wrong illusion that violence is the only way to solve any problems. It is no doubt that smacking others makes sense. In this way, whenever meet with anything, they will use violence. This
7、 dose bad for children development mentally. Their psychological health will be largely influenced. Lastly, smacking children is not the wise way to treat children. We need to bear in mind that children should be respected and protected. Even though they are wrong, we could guide and persuade them c
8、arefully. They are too young to be smacked. Smack them frequently makes them afraid, which bring a bad effect on their later life. After a child is disciplined, it is of most importance to express to the child your forgiveness of their faults to show your love for them. The smack may change his actions. But forgiveness and love can charge a heart, which can help them thrive best no matter in physical or in psychological. Hence, it is not sensible for parents to smack their children when they make mistakes.