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1、the effect of divorce on childrenthe effect of divorce on childrenParents always have a big influence on their children. They are an crucial example of what to do and what shouldnt do and every move they make may lead children to do the same. Therefore, if a family unfortunately breaks down, it may
2、be children that suffer the most.First and foremost, it may change childrens concept of the family. Every child needs a mom and dad. Mom is kind, soft, gentle and beautiful. She cares for the children and others and is very willing to listen to childrens problems. Taking myself for example, I learn
3、from my mom about how to be a good woman, wife and mother some day. Even though I learn these things from my dad, my mom teaches me in a very special way. Without my mom, I will be very hard to be a learner. Shes my role model of how to be a good girl and I love her very much. My dad is also very im
4、portant to me because he protects me and gives me confidence. He takes care of problems in a way that mom can not. Just like mom, without dad I wouldnt be able to the person I want to be because he is strong, wise and different from my mom. I learn things from him that I would not be able to learn t
5、he same way from my mom. Which parent do children not need, mom or dad? So in the single parent family, living without a dad or mom, children may suffer from the disorder of their roles. The divorce may bring them anxiety of the future, failure and distrust of love, which leads to avoidence of or pr
6、emature close contact with the opposite sex. Furthermore, the cost of upbringing is also a problem. For some parents are rather irresponsible, after divorce they may not show up again and never pay the childsupport, which lead to a serious financial problem for the single parent families. A third ef
7、fect, obviously seen, is that it will change chilrens characteristic. Parents are the pride of children and living without mom or dad, they will naturally lose this feeling of pride. Whats worse, they may easily produce such negative and pessimistic thought that my family is unfortunate, I am unwanted child, so just ignore me. They may be unsociable, coward and antagonistic. From what has been discussed above, we may finally draw the conclusion that divorce have more negative than positive effects on children and I wish every child has a family of love and happiness.
