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1、U1,Additional lnformation for the Teachers Reference,Text Is Love an Art?,Warm-up Activities,Further Reading,Speaking Skills,Additional Work,Warm-up Activities,Warm-up 1,1.Give your own definition of love.,There once existed a man who truly demonstrated all the aspects of that indefinable feeling ca
2、lled“love”.With hopes that you will understand,here is his story.A feud led to war in his land,where he had been raised.He knew every blade of grass,every person,tree and soul.Here he was happy.Here he could be himself and free.For this he loved the land.Thus,he went to war to fight for something he
3、 held so dear to him.,Warm-up 2,There at war he met a friend,another man of his age.He liked this man very much.He could talk to him,trust him,believe in him,share in his hopes and dreams,and he was happy for him.For this,he loved his friend.After war the man returned home to his family.His mother h
4、ugged him and held him tight,so happy that he had returned safely.His mother,his father,brothers and sisters shared in his triumphs.These were the people who had taught him life lessons,who were there for him when he was in need.They had a relationship so tight and wonderful that it was bonded by mo
5、re than blood alone.And for this,he loved them.,Warm-up 3,Then the man met a woman(or man depending on preference)and he felt important,accepted,wanted,cared about,understood,cherished and everything else that is wonderful and good in the world.And all those things he felt from the woman,he felt for
6、 the woman as well.She was every other love combined.And for this,he loved her.And love can only be defined as all these things combined.,Warm-up 4,2.Can you suggest ways to win a young woman or a young mans love?,At some point in our lives,we all play the dating game.The question is:how do we win i
7、t?Should we exaggerate our positive qualities or stick to the truth?Which pick-up lines are winners and which ones bomb?Will a blind date lead to long-lasting love?Here are some“rules”to live by in the dating world.Choose the ones you think will work for you:,Make them suspect youre interested,but d
8、ont let them know for sure.Men like the chase,so give it to them!,You could be married tomorrow if you lowered your standards far enough.Better to wait for the real thing than to waste your time on something that wont last.If you find a guy who claims he wants to take care of you,get away fast!Youll
9、 just end up taking care of him.Youll find Mr.Right when you know you are Ms.Right when you feel secure and okay with yourself.Refuse to play games.I fell in love with my fianc when he simply walked up to me and presented himself-no dumb lines,no fake smile,just“Hi,how are you doing?”Stay away from
10、men who talk only about money.Thats usually a sign of insecurity.,Warm-up 5,Warm-up 6,When you need to get away from a guy,start talking about something really boring,like computers.That will usually scare him off.Dont put up with criticism,especially when it comes to food.Every woman should be free
11、 to eat what she wants when she wants.Dont be too picky.I know women who have shunned men because they didnt look right(head is too big),smell right(too much cologne)or even breathe right(too loud).Unfortunately,women who like this end up ignoring or dumping perfectly good men without even giving th
12、em a chance.,Warm-up 7,On a first date,keep it brief.You want to have something to talk about the next time.Pay more attention to whether he s a good person and will be good to you than to what he looks like.Never date more than one guy at a time,even if they know about each other.Its exhausting and
13、 confusing.Youll end up wanting to be rid of all of them,even if under other circumstances one or more of them might have hadpotential.,Erich Fromm(1900-1980)was born in Frankfurt,Germany.He received his Ph.D from Heidelberg in 1922 and began a career as a psychotherapist.In 1934,he moved to the U.S
14、.and settled in New York City,and eventually became a naturalized U.S.citizen.In the 1940s he began to write.Some of his well-known books are Escape from Freedom(1941),The Sane Society(1955),The Art of Loving(1956),Lie without Illusions(1962)and The Anatomy of Human Destructiveness(1973).A psychiatr
15、ist primarily concerned with the condition of the human,AIFTTR1.1,Additional lnformation for the Teachers Reference,1.Erich Fromm,AIFTTR1.2,spirit,Fromm has had enormous influence on scholars and practitioners in psychology,sociology,history,economics,anthropology,and theology.,AIFTTR2.1,2.What is L
16、ove?,In English we say the one word“love”where in Greek there are four words.Our word“love”actually covers four kinds of love,namely,1)agape,that is,spiritual love or the love of God;2)storge,that is,family love;3)philia,that is,the love between friends which we usually call brotherly;and 4)eros,tha
17、t is,love experienced between a man and a woman when sexual feelings stir between them.It is the fourth kind of love that someone is experiencing when they tell you they have fallen in love.Its a great experience.It comes in that wonderful rainbow like section of the spectrum of human emotion.,AIFTT
18、R2.2,Its strange,in a sense,that eros is in many ways the most transient of the forms of love and yet it gets the most attention.Some people even seem to make it the one zone in life that youre always supposed to be attempting to land in or trying to stay in.,AIFTTR3.1,3.Valentines Day(February 14),
19、There are varying opinions as to the origin of Valentines Day.Some experts state that it originated from St.Valentine,a Roman who was martyred for refusing to give up Christianity.He died on February 14,269 A.D.,the same day that had been devoted to love lotteries.Legend also says that St.Valentine
20、left a farewell note for the jailers daughter,who had become his friend,and signed it“From Your Valentine”.Other aspects of the story say that Saint Valentine served as a priest at a temple during the reign of Emperor Claudius,but Claudius then had Valentine jailed for defying him.In 496 A.D.Pope Ge
21、lasius set aside February 14 to honor St.Valentine.,AIFTTR3.2,Gradually,February 14 became the date for exchanging love messages and St.Valentine became the patron saint of lovers.The date was marked by sending poems and simple gifts such as flowers.There was often a social gathering or a ball.In th
22、e United States,Miss Esther Howland is given credit for sending the first valentine cards.Commercial valentines were introduced in the 1800s and now the date is very commercial.The town of Loveland,Colorado,does a large post office business around February 14.The spirit of goodwill continues to be i
23、mportant,whether between lovers or friends.Valentines are sent out with sentimental verses and children exchange valentine cards at school.,AIFTTR4.1,4.The Victorian Age(1837-1901),The Victorian Age refers to the period of the reign of Queen Victoria of Great Britain,which lasted from 1837 to 1901.Q
24、ueen Victoria herself lived from 1819 to 1901.Only 18 when she came to the throne,Victoria oversaw England at the height of its overseas power.The British Empire was established and reached its greatest expanse under her reign.Perhaps most important during the Victorian Age was the shift away from a
25、 way of life based on ownership of land to a modern urban economy based on trade and manufacturing.Although we have a lingering impression of the Victorian Age as a repressive and repressed society,it was one of the,most vital periods of English history,lively and full of controversy.Belief in techn
26、ology was at its height,and the superstitions of magic had been swept away,reserved for gothic horror novels.Medical science was improving by leaps and bounds.This era continued the romantic ideals associated with love and nature.However,love was mostly not a spontaneous personal experience which th
27、en might lead to marriage.Marriage was contracted by convention instead of as a result of romantic love.Women usually married men chosen and approved of by their parents,and men chose women who were appropriate social matches.Love was supposed to develop between the two after marriage.,AIFTTR4.2,Tex
28、t,Is Love an Art?,Notes,Introduction to the Author and the Article,Phrases and Expressions,Exercises,Main Idea of the Text,MIOTT1,Main Idea of the Text,In the text,Fromm states that people have the wrong attitude towards love.Most peoples first faulty assumption is that they see the problem of love
29、primarily as that of being loved,rather than that of loving,of ones capacity to love.The second wrong assumption is that they see the problem of love as the problem of an object,not the problem of a faculty.The third error lies in the confusion between the initial experience of“falling”in love,and t
30、he permanent state of being in love.Based on this analysis,Fromm maintains that love is an art just as living is an art;and,if we want to learn how to love we must proceed in the same way we have to proceed if we want to learn any other art.He describes,MIOTT2,two crucial steps in the learning of an
31、 art;mastery of the theory and mastery of the practice.Essential to both of these steps,the mastery of the art must be a matter of the greatest concern nothing may be more important than it.When that art is the art of loving,nothing may be valued more than love itself.,Introduction to the Author and
32、 the article,Introduction to the Author and the Article,Erich Fromm(1900-1980)was born in Frankfurt,Germany.After receiving his Ph.D.from the University of Heidelberg in 1922,he began his career as a psychoanalyst,philosopher and writer.During his long and productive career,he taught and engaged in
33、research in several institutes and universities in the United States and Mexico,as well as publishing many books and articles,including The Sane Society(1955)and The Art of Loving(1956).,Introduction to the Author and the article2,The following selection is chosen from The Art of Loving,which is con
34、sidered his most famous work.In this selection Fromm states that people maintain wrong attitudes towards love and argues that love is an art,just as living is an art;in his view,if we want to learn how to love we must proceed in the same way we would if we wanted to learn any other art.,Part2_T1,Is
35、love an art?Then it requires knowledge and effort.Or is love a pleasant sensation,which to experience is a matter of chance,something one“falls into”if one is lucky?This little book is based on the former premise,while undoubtedly the majority of people today believe in the latter.,Erich Fromm,Is Lo
36、ve an Art?,Text,Not that people think that love is not important.They are starved for it;they watch endless numbers of films about happy and unhappy love stories,they listen to hundreds of trashy songs about love yet hardly anyone thinks that there is anything that needs to be learned about love.Thi
37、s peculiar attitude is based on several premises which either singly or combined tend to uphold it.Most people see the problem of love primarily as that of being loved,rather than that of loving,of ones capacity to love.Hence the problem to them is how to be loved,how to be lovable.In pursuit of thi
38、s aim they,Part2_T2,follow several paths.One,which is especially used by men,is to be successful,to be as powerful and rich as the social margin of ones position permits.Another,used especially by women,is to make oneself attractive,by cultivating ones body,dress,etc.Other ways of making oneself att
39、ractive,used both by men and women,are to develop pleasant manners,interesting conversation,to be helpful,modest,inoffensive.Many of the ways to make oneself lovable are the same as those used to make oneself successful,“to win friends and influence people.”As a ED matter of fact,what most people in
40、 our culture mean by being lovable is essentially a mixture between being popular and having sex appeal.,Part2_T3,Part2_T4,A second premise behind the attitude that there is nothing to be learned about love is the assumption that the problem of love is the problem of an object,not the problem of a f
41、aculty.People think that to love is simple,but that to find the right object to love or to be loved is difficult.This attitude has several reasons rooted in the development of modern society.One reason is the great change which occurred in the twentieth century with respect to the choice of a“love o
42、bject.”In the Victorian age,as in many traditional cultures,love was mostly not a spontaneous personal experience which then might lead to marriage.On the contrary,marriage was contracted by convention either by the,Part2_T5,respective families,or by a marriage broker,or without the help of such int
43、ermediaries;it was concluded on the basis of social considerations,and love was supposed to develop once the marriage had been concluded.In the last few generations the concept of romantic love has become almost universal in the Western world.In the United States,while considerations of a convention
44、al nature are not entirely absent,to a vast extent people are in search of“romantic love,”of the personal experience of love which then should lead to marriage.This new concept of freedom in love must have greatly enhanced the importance of the object as against the importance of the function.,Part2
45、_T6,Closely related to this factor is another feature characteristic of contemporary culture.Our whole culture is based on the appetite for buying,on the idea of a mutually favorable exchange.Modern mans happiness consists in the thrill of looking at the shop windows,and in buying all that he can af
46、ford to buy,either for cash or on installments.He(or she)looks at people in a similar way.For the man an attractive girl and for the woman an attractive man are the prizes they are after.“Attractive”usually means a nice package of qualities which are popular and sought after on the personality marke
47、t.What specifically makes a person attractive depends on the fashion of the time,physically as well as mentally.,Part2_T7,During the twenties,a drinking and smoking girl,tough and sexy,was attractive;today the fashion demands more domesticity and coyness.At the end of the nineteenth and the beginnin
48、g of this century,a man had to be aggressive and ambitious today he has to be social and tolerant in order to be an attractive“package.”At any rate,the sense of falling in love develops usually only with regard to such human commodities as are within reach of ones own possibilities for exchange.I am
49、 out for a bargain;the object should be desirable from the standpoint of its social value,and at the same time,Part2_T8,should want me,considering my overt and hidden assets and potentialities.Two persons thus fall in love when they feel they have found the best object available on the market,consid
50、ering the limitations of their own exchange values.Often,as in buying real estate,the hidden potentialities which can be developed play a considerable role in this bargain.In a culture in which the marketing orientation prevails,and in which material success is the outstanding value,there is little
