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1、,Friendship,Serlin,Producer,:,the difference in China and the West,Friendship,1.Chinese except friendships to be more lasting.2.Different foundations(基础)for friendship3.Westerns expect friends to be independent.(独立)4.Chinese usually expect more from their friends.,Chinese except friendships to be mo
2、re lasting.,For Chinese a true friendship endures（持续）throughout（所有方面）life changes.Chinese are friends even if they havent spoken for 20 years.If you shared something at one time,then all your life you are friends.This is the best of guanxi(关系),the Wide Web that connects Chinese through time and spac
3、e.So,we can say Chinese invented the Internet long before Bill Gates was born.,In North America,even the relationship in which people feel close and tell each other personal problems may not survive life changes such as moving to another city,graduation from a university or marriage.If the people do
4、 not see each other regularly,the relationship is likely to die.,Different foundations for friendships.,Chinese friends share“things in common”:a task,a class,the hometown.Friendships are formed（形成）by people who work or go to school together.You may or may not like the person,but if he or she can do
5、 something for you because of his position（地位）or job,you can be friends.But in North America,business and friendship are kept separate（各自的）.The friendships are usually tied（约束）to specific（特定的）activities.A person may have work friends and leisure(休闲时)activity friends.Also friends tend to have similar
6、 financial circumstances（经济状况）,because friendship in the West is based on equality.,Westerns expect friends to be independent.,Why?Its because their friendship is mostly a matter of（大约）providing emotional support（精神支持）and spending time together,so they do not feel comfortable in a relationship in wh
7、ich one person is giving more and the other is dependent（依赖的）on what is giving.A westerner will respond to（对作出回应）a friends trouble by asking“What do you want to do?”The idea is to help the friend to think out the problem and discover the solution（解决方法）he or she really wants and then to support the s
8、olution.,Chinese friends give each other more concrete（实际的）help.A Chinese will use personal connections to help a friend get something hard to obtain（得到）.They give each other money and might help each other out financially（经济上 over a long time,Chinese usually expect more from their friends.,In the W
9、est,you can certainly ask a friend to do something with you,but you recognize（承认）that your friend may say no,if he or she gives you as reason.You would not expect a friend to drop（丢弃）everything to respond（回应）to a non-urgent（非迫切的）need such as shopping.Nor would you expect a friend to recognize and re
10、spond to your wishes without stating them.A friend in China is someone who offers（主动提出）help without waiting to be asked.There are few limits to what you can expect from a friend.You can feel free to tell your friend what he or she can or should do or help or please you,Friendship,the popular America
11、n sitcom,FRIENDS,Rachel Green,Monica Geller,Phoebe Buffay,Joey Tribbiani,Chandler Bing,Ross Geller,.,Friends is an American sitcom which premiered on NBC on September 22,1994.The series revolves around a group of friends in the area of Manhattan,New York City,who occasionally live together and share
12、 living expenses.The friendship between them are strong and touching,The Greenwich Village building used as the friends apartment block in establishing shots,The Central Perk,老友记是美国的情景喜剧 首演于 NBC 于1994年 9 月 22 日，这是美国情景喜剧系列围绕着一群朋友在纽约曼哈顿市人偶尔住在一起并共享生活开支。他们之间的友谊牢固又感人,Good friends are like stars.You dont always see them,but you know they are always there.,好朋友就像星星。你不经常看见他们，但你知道他们都在那里,thank you,
