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1、Marriage Across Nations 跨国婚姻价值观l As cultural change depends, the number of marriage across nations is increasing .however ,such marriage tends to bring about problems and even meet with opposition from family numbers ,mainly due to cultural difference .due to the fact that the couple has a different
2、 family background ,culture ,and custom ,and social class level ,many disagreements can occur . l 随着文化变化的发展，跨国婚姻的数量越来越多。让而，这样的婚姻会带来很多问题以及会遇到跟家庭的很多相反面，主要是由于文化之间的不同，还有夫妻之间拥有不同家庭背景，文化和风俗以及社会阶级，那么很多的分歧就会出现 l One of the problems is that these girls take with them cultural values about sharing and respons
3、ibility that are different from the individualistic values in the West. Asian cultures are based on collectivism, Asian people tend to be interdependent and supportive. In contrast, Western culture is rooted in individualism. Private belongings are ones own. When an Asian girl marries a Westerner, s
4、he reasons in the same manner as before. She will have no understanding of pre-nuptial agreements. These girls are often rudely disillusioned by such discoveries. l 其中的一个问题就是这些姑娘们带着有福共享有难同挡的文化价值观,这与西方的个人主义价值观迥然不同. 亚州文化往往以集体主义精神为基础。亚洲人更倾向于互利互助. 反之，西方文化往往以个人主义为根基，私有财产属己性更强。当亚洲姑娘嫁给一位西方人后, 她仍然象从前那样思考问题.
5、 这些姑娘常常会因为这样的发现而使自己的幻想破灭。 l Religion can be a problem. If the two has a different religion then the other one, there is a problem. Because some religions celebrate certain holidays while others dont. Eating habits can also be a problem. One might eat certain food the other dont or dislike. They ofte
6、n have a hard time fitting in. marriage across nations is not a good idea, but it is still all right to marry someone who is different than you l 宗教会是一个问题，如果两个人有不一样的宗教背景，那将是一个很大的问题。因为一些宗教会庆祝一些特定的节日而其他的不会做庆祝。饮食习惯也是一个问题，他们需要一段艰难的时间去适应，跨国婚姻并不是一个好主意，但和一个跟你很不一样的人结婚也是无可厚非的 l It is not necessary to describ
7、e the challenges that Asian girls have to face. In this area of globalisation, people see nothing wrong with cross border marriages. Needless to say, they can be successful, a fact that has been proven SAN Maos love story. Nevertheless if you are not a writer like SAN Mao or a pop star like WEI Wei,
8、 you probably need to think about the challenges such marriages often face. l 没有必要再继续描写亚州姑娘们所面临的挑战。在这个世界趋于一体化的时代，跨国婚姻本身无可非厚。跨国婚姻也同样可以成功，三毛的爱情故事也证明了这一点。但是如果你不是象三毛那样的作家或者不是象韦唯那样的歌星,那么你可能就有必要对跨国婚姻所面临的挑战思考一番. l Although cross border marriage may seem as dreamily beautiful as a fairytale, the tale is oft
9、en based more on romantic imagination than reality. Different cultures, tastes, life experiences, eating and living habits, all these factors just like strong waves, which may wash the dream away as soon as the weather becomes stormy. However, such a marriage can be successful if the partners give i
10、t their full love, understanding and are willing to compromise. so girls ,if you want to do the marriage across nations or the cross culture love ,please look before you leap ,surely that ,true love is in the exception l l 尽管跨国婚姻象神话般的美好，但神话往往根植于浪漫的想象。不同的文化、不同的趣味、不同的饮食起居习惯等诸多因素犹如强大的波浪，一旦暴风雨来临，就可能把梦想冲得无踪无影。当然，如果双方能用互爱互解互谅，那么这样的婚姻同样可以成功. 所以女孩们在开始跨国婚姻前要慎重啊，除非是真爱。，
