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1、211回IELTSADVANTAGEMatchingPracticeQuestionsWhichofthedescriptionsmatchwiththefollowing10waystohavebetterconversations?ChooseTENanswersfromtheboxandwritethecorrectIetterA-Jnexttoquestions1-10.ADontstatesomethingasfactifyou,rereallynotsureaboutit.BGivetheotherpersonachancetospeak.CDontexpressthesameth
2、ingsagainandagain.DFocusentirelyontheconversation.EDontthinkthatconversationsneedtobelong.FExpectotherstorespondtoyouropinions.GDon,tincludetrivialinformation.HDontthinkthatyou,veexperiencedthesamethingsasthoseyouretalkingto.IAllowyourthoughtstocomeandgo.Dontdwellonthem.JAvoidyes/noquestions.1. (way
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4、meskillsasaprofessionalinterviewerthatIdoinregularlife.So,mgoingtoteachyouhowtointerviewpeople,andthatsactuallygoingtohelpyoulearnhowtobebetterconversationalists.Learntohaveaconversationwithoutwastingyourtime,withoutgettingbored,and,pleaseGod,withoutoffendinganybody.We,veallhadreallygreatconversatio
5、ns.Wevehadthembefore.Weknowwhatitslike.Thekindofconversationwhereyouwalkawayfeelingengagedandinspired,orwhereyoufeellikeyouvemadearealconnectionoryouvebeenperfectlyunderstood.Thereisnoreasonwhymostofyourinteractionscantbelikethat.So,Ihave10basicrules.mgoingtowalkyouthroughallofthem,buthonestly,ifyou
6、justchooseoneofthemandmasterit,youllalreadyenjoybetterconversations.Numberone:Dontmultitask.AndIdontmeanjustsetdownyourcellphoneoryourtabletoryourcarkeysorwhateverisinyourhand.Imean,bepresent.Beinthatmoment.Dontthinkaboutyourargumentyouhadwithyourboss.Dontthinkaboutwhatyouregoingtohavefordinner.Ifyo
7、uwanttogetoutoftheconversation,getoutoftheconversation,butdontbehalfinitandhalfoutofit.Numbertwo:Dontpontificate.Ifyouwanttostateyouropinionwithoutanyopportunityforresponseorargumentorpushbackorgrowth,writeablog.Now,theresareallygoodreasonwhyIdontallowpunditsonmyshow:Becausetheyrereallyboring.Ifthey
8、reconservative,theyregoingtohateObamaandfoodstampsandabortion.Ifthey,reliberal,theyregoingtohatebigbanksandoilcorporationsandDickCheney.Totallypredictable.Andyoudontwanttobelikethat.YouneedtoentereveryIELTSADVANTAGEMatching Practice Questionsconversationassumingthatyouhavesomethingtolearn.Thefamedth
9、erapistM.ScottPecksaidthattruelisteningrequiresasettingasideofoneself.Andsometimesthatmeanssettingasideyourpersonalopinion.Hesaidthatsensingthisacceptance,thespeakerW川becomelessandlessvulnerableandmoreandmorelikelytoopenuptheinnerrecessesofhisorhermindtothelistener.Again,assumethatyouhavesomethingto
10、learn.BillNye:Everyoneyouwillevermeetknowssomethingthatyoudont.Iputitthisway:Everybodyisanexpertinsomething.Numberthree:Useopen-endedquestions.Inthiscase,takeacuefromjournalists.Startyourquestionswithwho,what,when,where,whyorhow.IfyouputInacomplicatedquestion,youregoingtogetasimpleanswerout.IfIaskyo
11、u,Wereyouterrified?youregoingtorespondtothemostpowerfulwordinthatsentence,whichisterrified,andtheanswerisYes,IwasorNo,Iwasnt.*Wereyouangry?Yes,Iwasveryangry.Letthemdescribeit.Theyretheonesthatknow.Tryaskingthemthingslike,Whatwasthatlike?Howdidthatfeel?Becausethentheymighthavetostopforamomentandthink
12、aboutit,andyou,regoingtogetamuchmoreinterestingresponse.Numberfour:Gowiththeflow.Thatmeansthoughtswillcomeintoyourmindandyouneedtoletthemgooutofyourmind.We,veheardinterviewsofteninwhichaguestistalkingforseveralminutesandthenthehostcomesbackinandasksaquestionwhichseemslikeitcomesoutofnowhere,oritsalr
13、eadybeenanswered.Thatmeansthehostprobablystoppedlisteningtwominutesagobecausehethoughtofthisreallycleverquestion,andhewasjustboundanddeterminedtosaythat.Andwedotheexactsamething.We,resittingtherehavingaconversationwithsomeone,andthenwerememberthattimethatwemetHughJackmaninaCOffeeshop.Andwestoplisten
14、ing.Storiesandideasaregoingtocometoyou.Youneedtoletthemcomeandletthemgo.Numberfive:Ifyoudontknow,saythatyoudon,tknow.Now,peopleontheradio,especiallyonNPR1aremuchmoreawarethattheyregoingontherecord,andsotheyremorecarefulaboutwhattheyclaimtobeanexpertinandwhattheyclaimtoknowforsure.Dothat.Errontheside
15、ofcaution.Talkshouldnotbecheap.Numbersix:Dontequateyourexperiencewiththeirs.Iftheyretalkingabouthavinglostafamilymember,dontstarttalkingaboutthetimeyoulostafamilymember.Iftheyretalkingaboutthetroubletheyrehavingatwork,donttellthemabouthowmuchyouhateyourjob.Itsnotthesame.Itisneverthesame.Allexperienc
16、esareindividual.And,moreimportantly,itisnotaboutyou.Youdontneedtotakethatmomenttoprovehowamazingyouareorhowmuchyouvesuffered.SomebodyaskedStephenHawkingoncewhathisIQwas,andhesaid,Ihavenoidea.PeoplewhobragabouttheirIQsarelosers.Conversationsarenotapromotionalopportunity.Numberseven:Trynottorepeatyour
17、self.Ifscondescending,anditsreallyboring,andwetendtodoitalot.Especiallyinworkconversationsorinconversationswithourkids,wehaveapointtomake,sowejustkeeprephrasingitoverandover.Dontdothat.Numbereight:Stayoutoftheweeds.Frankly,peopledontcareabouttheyears,thenames,thedates,allthosedetailsthatyou,restrugg
18、lingtocomeupwithinyourmind.Theydontcare.Whattheycareaboutisyou.Theycareaboutwhatyourelike,whatyouhaveincommon.So,forgetthedetails.Leavethemout.Numbernine:Thisisnotthelastone,butitisthemostimportantone.Listen.Icannottellyouhowmanyreallyimportantpeoplehavesaidthatlisteningisperhapsthemost,thenumberone
19、mostimportantskillthatyoucoulddevelop.Buddhasaid,andmparaphrasing,Ifyourmouthisopen,you,renotlearning.AndCalvinCoolidgesaid,nNomaneverlistenedhiswayoutofajob.Whydowenotlistentoeachother?Numberone,we,drathertalk.Whenmtalking,mincontrol.Idonthavetohearanythingmnotinterestedin.mthecenterofattention.Ica
20、nbolstermyownidentity.Butthere,sanotherreason:Wegetdistracted.Theaveragepersontalksatabout225wordsperminute,butwecanlistenatupto500wordsperminute.So,ourmindsarefillinginthoseother275words.Andlook,Iknow,ittakeseffortandenergytoactuallypayattentiontosomeone,butifyoucantdothat,yourenotinaconversation.Y
21、ourejusttwopeopleshoutingoutbarelyrelatedsentencesinthesameplace.Youhavetolistentooneanother.StephenCoveysaiditverybeautifully.Hesaid,Mostofusdontlistenwiththeintenttounderstand.Welistenwiththeintenttoreply.Onemorerule,number10,anditsthisone:Bebrief.Agoodconversationislikeaminiskirt;shortenoughtoret
22、aininterest,butlongenoughtocoverthesubject.-MySisterAllofthisboilsdowntothesamebasicconcept,anditisthisone:Beinterestedinotherpeople.Youknow,Igrewupwithaveryfamousgrandfather,andtherewaskindofaritualinmyhome.Peoplewouldcomeovertotalktomygrandparents,andaftertheywouldleave,mymotherwouldcomeovertous,a
23、ndshe,dsay,Doyouknowwhothatwas?Shewastherunner-uptoMissAmerica.HewasthemayorofSacramento.ShewonaPulitzerPrize.HesaRussianballetdancer.AndIkindofgrewupassumingeveryonehassomehidden,amazingthingaboutthem.Andhonestly,Ithinkitswhatmakesmeabetterhost.IkeepmymouthshutasoftenasIpossiblycan,Ikeepmymindopen,andmalwayspreparedtobeamazed,andmneverdisappointed.Youdothesamething.Goout,talktopeople,listentopeople,and,mostimportantly,bepreparedtobeamazed.Thanks.
